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Old friends visit from far flung countries

7 October, 2015 (05:59) | Living in Europe | By: admin

We’ve had a series of old friends passing through Barcelona all month, which has inspired us to make our new abode *ours*, meaning our art goes up, we buy basic furniture, new appliances, etc. Within no time it looks like we’ve been living here for months. Among my more far flung friends to visit this month, came my tennis coach from New Zealand, Jane Pannu, with her two kids who were mere tadpoles when I lived in NZ but have grown up into good looking young adults. Saravinda and KP are now headed to Columbia University on tennis scholarships.

1 – Jane’s kids, Saravinda and KP are off to USA on tennis scholarships after their European trip, while Jane heads home to windy, wet, chilly New Zealand to an empty nest. 2- reunited with Kiwi tennis coach, Jane Pannu. “I feel like I’ve just lost 20 years of my life” she pronounced (Saravonda is 20). “I really don’t want to go back to windy Wellington. I forgot how much I miss beautiful buildings. We don’t have many of those back in NZ¨.

Seeing how Mark and I live has inspired Jane with ideas to move on with her life now the kids are grown. She talks of moving back to London, where she was originally born, with her husband, who is a private contractor and can work anywhere. She’s lived in NZ for more than half her life now. ¨New Zealand lacks the cultural stimulation that Europe can provide,” she says, “Ï do not look forward to returning there.” She retired from playing tennis a few years ago due to injuries. Also, the pressures of being the best player on the regional team got to her. Sadly, she no longer coaches either, though one could say her biggest masterpiece (other than *me* of course, as she turned me into a fine tennis player) are her kids, who were born and raised playing the game. Her son K.P. hopes to go pro, while her daughter Saravinda is not enjoying tennis itself as much as she used to before leaving NZ as the next big Kiwi hope. The pressure and work involved in keeping her (2nd year) tennis scholarship has put her off the game itself though she’s committed to it for the duration of college. She likes the educational opportunities tennis has created for her and loves America, but at heart is just a blooming young woman who loves to party. It would not surprise me if she eventually falls in love and marries an American.

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1- Mark’s nephew, Anson hit it off famously with 17 year old KP. They played video games and got along like old friends. He had engaging conversations with both Jane’s kids.

2- Anson stayed in the MLV Hub Headquarters for his two week stay. It was like having a mini Mark around; eager, sweet, willing, athletic and respectful, while exhibiting signature Lewis humor. For Mark it was like having his kid brother to kick around with again.

“We are alternative adults¨ I informed him when he got here. “Pretend like you’re renting an apartment and we’re your roommates.”

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1 – Anson and Quixote became good buddies. 2 – Mark’s new “Gaddalfi look” suits him. Next he wants to get a blonde chihuahua dog accessory, like Micky Rourke. He loves Micky Rourke’s eccentric fashion sense.  Now Anson can return home knowing more about his crazy uncle (and aunt) who have lived abroad for most of his life.


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Although I haven’t written much about all the visitors we’ve received in the 9 years we’ve lived here, now that we’re settled in what we believe to be our “punto final” (we expect to live, retire, and probably die here in this beautiful beach location) I will include these meaningful interludes of friends and family catching up in future blogs.
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Our New Reality

7 August, 2015 (23:00) | Living in Europe | By: admin


1 – view of our new apartment. 2 – View FROM our new apartment.

Moving into this place feels like winning the lotto, although we did work hard to get it. A lot of luck and good timing has landed us here, living right on the beach, with open horizon views and an elevator.


1- Photo of Mark standing on our balcony. 2- Photo of Mark sitting in our living room before we furnished it.

View of our building taken from the gondola that goes from our beach to the top of Montjuic.

We’ve had 2 oversees visitors since moving here; Mark’s nephew Anson who came to celebrate his 16th birthday with Uncle Mark, and my lifelong friend, performance artist Elia Arce.

The first thing Mark did was to buy a big, comfy couch to make the place comfortable for his nephew, who arrived just a few days after we were handed the keys to the place.

1 – The Lewis boys enjoy our new couch. 2 – The Lewis men enjoy our new balcony views.

This is my new, tinier but much more comfy studio, better known as MLV Headquarters. From my room I have surprising views of both our “old” hood (1/2 block away, behind the new building where we live now). The unexpected bonus is that from my bed I can look out the window to a harbor view! Icing on the cake!

Since moving into the place on July 5 we’ve had several spontaneous housewarmings and a birthday party for Anson, who stayed with us for 2 weeks.

1 – Handsome Anson 2 – Handsome Anson and his handsome uncle Mark heading home after body surfing all morning, as viewed from our balcony using a telephoto lens.

The city has all sorts of fun events that take place in our new front yard, Plaza del Mar. Twice a week they host a free movie night, old film classics, projected onto a screen on the beach.

Classic movie night on the beach every Wednesday and Sunday night. Its fun to watch it all from our balcony seats. I thought we were happy before, but now we’ll never be bored again. We’re beyond happy, we’re elated!

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Good morning!

My life is presently a living dream, where I get to swim every morning during the “sweet spot” of the day, between 8 and 11 am, before tourists and party people show up. This is when the water is flat, its before the wind kicks up, and you can swim naked if you want. (In Spain its actually written in the constitution that citizens have the RIGHT to be naked.) The evenings often bring a surprise, like last week, when they broadcast a live opera performance of Verdi’s La Traviata, from the famous opera house, El Gran Teatre del Liceu, on Las Ramblas. We have front row balcony seats, heh heh heh.

I can’t believe we no longer have to descend and later ascend the 88 steps to go anywhere, even to the beach only a half a block away. I thought I would miss our little quiet treehouse, but instead I’m just relieved and happy we sold it in time to cinch the deal for this new place.


La Traviata, simulcast LIVE from the Opera House.

On Sunday the city celebrated by throwing what I call a Holi party (like in India, where they have a holiday named Holi in which they throw paint around and on each other) The intense afternoon sun beat down while people danced profusely for hours on end while shooting colored powder everywhere, jumping and laughing exuberantly while music was pumped out by a DJ with a mega sound system. The music went from techno to rockabilly to pop to rock, but always with a strong underlying beat. I think its odd so many kids stayed for the whole day. In Hollywood ¨back in my day¨ kids would pretty much seek and dance to only one genre of music and would tire easily if lame music would come on. But here, its everything goes, as long as you can move your feet to it. I love that about this city. I also love the multi-generational approach to fun. If it weren’t such a messy ordeal I would have gone down to join them for a spell and felt perfectly at one with it all; I love to dance!

It was intriguing how those kids could keep it up for so long in the hot July sun. Even when I was ¨young¨ I would not have been able to dance wildly in such shadeless heat for hours on end like that. I was told that throwing paint while wildly dancing is a new exercise trend in Barcelona, though its the first I’ve heard of it. Of course, after 6 years of living in a tree house with 88 stairs for 6 years I probably missed out on a few trends…

I’ve never seen so many people having so much fun getting dirty with colors! Right in my front yard! These events probably took place while we were living in the beach house 1/2 block away, but by the time things start I would normally be up in my treehouse waxing poetic about the quiet.

Fun in the sun Barcelona 2015.

Giving all those dancers a place to safely chill, the city followed this big paint throwing party with a mellow film on the beach afterwards. I must say, the city workers are really efficient in their clean-up. Less than an hour after the all day event was over, barely a trace of colored powder could be found on the plaza ground.

The crowd needed something cool (and free) to do afterwards, so they were encouraged by the clean-up crew to go down to the beach to wait for tonight’s classic movie. What a great city to be young in! (its also a great city to be old in, heh heh heh). After dancing their bazookas off all day everyone goes to sit in the sand to wait for dark, when the Sunday night movie begins.

I am pinching myself that all this stuff probably was going on while we lived in the treehouse, but we were not aware of it. Occasionally we’d hear live music and crowd cheers for whatever reason, but we never associated any specific activity with that.

Movie night again.

August 2, 2015

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All the things that make us happy as a couple somehow all happened in one beautiful relaxed day.
Sunrise
Coffee
Swim
Hanging on the beach
Bike Ride
Nap
Sex
Watching Fareed Zakaria together
Having lunch made by a good friend
Working on my video project with Mark’s help
Playing music
Watching a good movie
Staring at the full moon
Laughing and smiling a lot.

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Balcony Life

7 August, 2015 (18:28) | Living in Europe | By: admin

We sold our modest beach pad with the 88 stairs in order to buy another one, only a half block away, directly on the beach and with an elevator. The last two weeks before moving I did a photo essay on the mellow, quiet life of our neighborhood as seen from our street, Calle del Mar. Here are some photos I’d like to share, of the quiet neighborhood life as seen from the attic apartment where we’ve lived the last 6 years:


The above thumbnails are of the terraces across from us.

Almost all our neighbors use their balconies to dry their clothes. But they also use their balconies to read, to write, to smoke cigarettes, talk on the phone, get some fresh air, ponder, or chat with their housemates.

I notice most balconies have a basket of clothes pins and many have shoes or slippers out to dry.

And this guy uses his balcony as an office, multi-tasking with his smart phone and laptop:

We got to know our neighbors across the street from the waist up. We know the whole story of how the mother, Silvia supports her whole family, which includes twins, an ailing mother and an obese brother. Unfortunately I began this essay too late to get busy Silvia´s photo, but I did get a couple shots of her mom, with whom we’ve have friendly chats about the twins, the neighborhood, the recently divorced and unemployed brother, of Silvia’s really grueling two jobs, etc. The twins were 11 when we moved in and they’re 17 now. One gets good grades, the other has a flair for cooking. They both are soccer addicts.

I would have liked to get a family portrait at the window, but I didn’t think of it in time.

We put our place for sale in June, and made an offer on a new one right on the beach, and with an elevator. In many of the above shots you can actually see the back of our new building, which is on the famous Plaça del Mar. In the stressful period between then and now we actually sold this place quickly and as I write this we’ve been settling into our new pad for almost a month now. And I will write a bling blog next…

But now we say goodbye to our quiet little treehouse, in which we have been so happy, by taking a couple selfies. If it were not for the 88 steps (6 flights) to get to our home we never would have sold it. But considering the 88 stairs, we were very lucky to have sold it so quickly.

Yes, I’ll miss the quiet of the back streets, but to be honest, this is how I feel:

P.S. I did a much better, more complete photo album called ¨balcony life¨ on facebook. Check it out if you like these.